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From:         ANGELIQUE PEZZIMENTI <ANGELIQ@BIGPOND.COM>
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hello everybody now talking about tissue when toni had her operation on =
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Date:         Tue, 1 Sep 1998 11:58:02 -0400
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Just wanted to let everyone know that Carmen Rae is finally home.  She came
home late yesterday afternoon.  Her illness was apparently the result of a
virus (?).  She was very ill and at one point completely quit eating.  She
is a little thinner than she was last week, but her appetite and her smile
is back.

We want to thank everyone for their thoughts and prayers.  We have a short
break as Carmen Rae will have her thumbs released on September 25th.

Mike & Robin
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From:         Scott Pengelly <scottp@EUGENE.COM>
Subject:      Re: Carmen Rae is home!
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Welcome home Carmen Rae
and good going mom and dad.
What a battle you've had.
Congratulations.

All the best,
Scott
At 11:58 AM 9/1/98 -0400, ROBIN L HILL wrote:
>Just wanted to let everyone know that Carmen Rae is finally home.  She came
>home late yesterday afternoon.  Her illness was apparently the result of a
>virus (?).  She was very ill and at one point completely quit eating.  She
>is a little thinner than she was last week, but her appetite and her smile
>is back.
>
>We want to thank everyone for their thoughts and prayers.  We have a short
>break as Carmen Rae will have her thumbs released on September 25th.
>
>Mike & Robin
>
>
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Hi Angelique,

Michelle started pre-school at the age of 3 and we have not have any
teasing at all up to know (that we know of).  Michelle is in second grade
now she is almost 8. Yes some kids stare but she does not think she is any
dfferent, she just moves on.  Her classmates have all been really friendly
and treat her just like any other child, she is in her second year at the
same school and the kids know her.
She does not like to talk about being different, maybe some day she will.
We do tell her that  God made her in a special way.

Ryan & Martha
Algonquin, IL
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> Just wanted to let everyone know that I am finally getting Brooke's
> pictures in the mail. The first batch going out is to everyone we have
> received a picture from.  I just need stamps.  I will get everyone elses out
> with in the next week.
>
>                                            Better late than never!
>                                                               Stacy
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From:         Andrea Gartner <agartner@PEGANET.NET>
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However the friends I made in school and in adulthood are the gems of life
that help you keep on "Keeping  on"

THOSE ARE THE BEST KIND.  I feel so greatful to have a boyfriend and a best
friend that really respects me and understands me.  I remember one time my
best friend and I went to the mall, and there were some people who stared
at me throughout the time we were there.  She even told them a few times,
that what they were doing was wrong.  When we got back home, she asked me
"Andrea how can you put up with that..  I don't think any other guy
understands me the why Chris does.  He always wants to be sure I'm happy.
Just to know that there is someone there, even if its a parent, sister,
friend, etc. that supports me does so much.

 No matter
> where you send your kid there will always be some unkind word or stare...
I
> still get them and im 31  but i have learned the value of my own self
worth...
> They don't determine how I feel about ME   I do.

VERY WELL PUT.

> It is vital to surround your child with love and support but at the same
time
> they have to learn that not everyone in this world will be kind. They
have to
> know how to "pick themselves up dust themselves off and start all over
again!
> They have to learn that the people who love them are the ones to pay
attention
> to and learn from.  They have to know the value of the phrase "don't let
the
> Turkeys get you down!"
>
> They have to know where to find that support... thoriugh things like this
> listserv, through good friends and through family!!
>
EXACTLY...

I COULDN'T HAVE SAID IT BETTER MYSELF JENNY.
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thank you for the response for the teasing situation it has helped a =
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From:         ROBIN L HILL <CARMENRAE@PRODIGY.NET>
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GREAT NEWS!!!!

Glad to hear another doctor is using dissolvable plates.  Carmen Rae has
them in her head after her cranial surgery on June 12th.  I will warn you
though, when the plates start to dissolve, screws come lose and sometimes
stick out.  Carmen Rae has this strange lump above her eye that is kinda
jagged.  Plastic surgeon says it is perfectly normal; so on we go.  It was
a little weird before we knew what it was.  Just thought I would pass this
on.

Robin Hill

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> From: Thomas Troudt <ttroudt@SPRYNET.COM>
> To: APERT@LISTSERV.AOL.COM
> Subject: Derek's successful surgery!!!!!
> Date: Wednesday, August 26, 1998 5:24 PM
>
> Hello to all,
>     Derek had his craniofacial surgery on Thurs. the 20. We were home by
> Sunday!!!  He now has  a wonderfully shaped head and the lumps and bumps
are
> gone.  The surgeons used the new dissolveable plates and no metal was
used.
> How amazing new technology is.  Derek is roaring to go and if he didn't
have
> to wear a helmet, you wouldn't be able to tell that he had anything done
to
> him a week ago. No swelling, no pain, no nothing.  Yipee!  Thankyou
everyone
> for your kind responses and your prayers.   Love, the Troudts in Greeley
> Colorado
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Hi Don,

I received Brenna's photos back in the mail today.  I see you have been
busy!
:-)  Us too - the reason I haven't been active on the list lately.  We
finally moved into our new house - the one we bought, basically tore down
and majorly remodeled.  Of course we hired the contractors :-)  Still it
was quite a project.  And now with the 2 kiddo's my computer time is more
limited.  I will hop back in soon though.  Caden is almost 5 months old and
sleeping most nights.  Now finally Brenna is doing better too.  Brenna just
had her T & A's removed 2 weeks ago.  She briefly had a tough time post op
as we expected.  She almost needed a trach - scared the beejeebers out of
me.  Her airway is very small from what her ENT says.  Anyways, she bounced
back after one day and is now almost herself except she is breathing so
much better at night.  Funny - she wanted hot dogs too after her surgery
:-)  It is great.

Well hope all is well and thanks for working on our page.  I couldn't pull
up her pictures though.  Only her story.  Please Let me know if it is me or
something else.

Take care, Robyn J - very hot,  Eugene, OR
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After Mitchell's surgery, I thought his dissolvable plates would disappear
evenly.  However, they seem to be just getting smaller and smaller, moving in
from the edges.  We have not noticed any screws.

Just two weeks ago, I opened our local newspaper and there on the Business
page was a huge article about the "local boy done good" distibutor of Lorenz
surgical products.  There was a big picture of a reconstructed skull and the
plates.  There were several quotes from the local craniofacial team (who we
choose not to use).  It was just amazing to just flip thru the paper and see
it right there.   You can read this article if you like by searching the news
archives for Lorenz at www.edmondsun.com.  Sometimes I feel so isolated with
my interest in things like dissolvable plates.  It was just really cool to
find that someone else thought it might be newsworthy.

Glad to know that Carmen Rae is better.  Has anyone heard from the Foster's
lately?

Resa
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Has anyone heard of an organization called National Academy of Child
Development of NACD?  They have a web site at www.nacd.org.  They work with
brain development and also speech and language development in both delayed and
non-delayed children.  Their web site is pretty slick, and I was wondering if
anyone had had any experience with them.  Are any of their products
worthwhile?  What would be the advantages of their program over early
intervention therapists?   Do you think they can do what they say they can?

Resa
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I have heard that some times there can be problems with the dissolvable plates
that they can also push onto the brain.  Does anyone know about that?
                             Stacy Bell

ROBIN L HILL wrote:

> GREAT NEWS!!!!
>
> Glad to hear another doctor is using dissolvable plates.  Carmen Rae has
> them in her head after her cranial surgery on June 12th.  I will warn you
> though, when the plates start to dissolve, screws come lose and sometimes
> stick out.  Carmen Rae has this strange lump above her eye that is kinda
> jagged.  Plastic surgeon says it is perfectly normal; so on we go.  It was
> a little weird before we knew what it was.  Just thought I would pass this
> on.
>
> Robin Hill
>
> ----------
> > From: Thomas Troudt <ttroudt@SPRYNET.COM>
> > To: APERT@LISTSERV.AOL.COM
> > Subject: Derek's successful surgery!!!!!
> > Date: Wednesday, August 26, 1998 5:24 PM
> >
> > Hello to all,
> >     Derek had his craniofacial surgery on Thurs. the 20. We were home by
> > Sunday!!!  He now has  a wonderfully shaped head and the lumps and bumps
> are
> > gone.  The surgeons used the new dissolveable plates and no metal was
> used.
> > How amazing new technology is.  Derek is roaring to go and if he didn't
> have
> > to wear a helmet, you wouldn't be able to tell that he had anything done
> to
> > him a week ago. No swelling, no pain, no nothing.  Yipee!  Thankyou
> everyone
> > for your kind responses and your prayers.   Love, the Troudts in Greeley
> > Colorado
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ANGELIQUE PEZZIMENTI wrote:

Hi from Kelly Spadini! I just wanted to write about the teasing problem.
I don't get teased very often. I have been going to school with the same
people my whole life. I am now a junior(11th grade) so I don't have much
longer to go. I do get stared at in public places, though. I either
stare back or just go on with my business. Most of the starers are
little people so I try to be understanding, as little people are famous
for being curious. It does get annoying, though.

Talk to ya later,
Kelly

>  hello everybody just want to ask a question when your children with
> apert  go to school do they cope alright or are they teased .this is
> my worst fear i dont want anyone to hurt my little one i know that
> other children can be very cruel.
> angelique
 
 

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<P>Hi from Kelly Spadini! I just wanted to write about the teasing problem.
I don't get teased very often. I have been going to school with the same
people my whole life. I am now a junior(11th grade) so I don't have much
longer to go. I do get stared at in public places, though. I either stare
back or just go on with my business. Most of the starers are little people
so I try to be understanding, as little people are famous for being curious.
It does get annoying, though.

<P>Talk to ya later,
<BR>Kelly
<BLOCKQUOTE TYPE=CITE>&nbsp;<FONT COLOR="#000000"><FONT SIZE=-1>hello everybody
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I am 24 years old and I also get teased. People do stare and sometimes they laugh. It's very hard at times. One good thing is that I have my husband. He has gotten me through from very hard times. I also have a good job that I never thought I would have because of Apert's. I have learned to ingore it and go on with what I am doing. To me it's not worth the effort to even let the people know that they are getting to you. It does hurt but why get the satisfaction of knowing they did hurt you?
My surgries have helped a great deal, too. People don't stare as much, but maybe too it's the fact I feel alot better about myself. All the pain was worth it to me.
We are all beatiful people. It's our friends, ourselves and family who make us this way.

Hope everyone is well. Glad to hear Carmen Rae is home.  Has anyone heard from BJ lately?

Rachel
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Subject:      Dissolving Plates/Screws. (Andrew Hartley born 4/30/98)
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Hi everyone,
Little Andrew (Born 4/30) had his Cranial vault remodeling,
done on July 27th. He also had the dissolving plates and
screws. We noticed that he also had strange bumps in
places. Upon inquiry we were told they would dissolve
and no longer be noticeable. Hands are a big topic lately
and we will probably have that done in the near future.

Would it be possible for someone to send me the list
of kids, especially the date of birth, so as to become more
organized in our compilation of data and filling system.
I have been doing some in-depth searches on the internet
lately and have found some good sites. I will get back to
everyone as soon I eliminate duplicate information etc..

Has anyone heard from the South African's lately.?

Regards,
Your friends,
Rich,Karen,Alex & ANDREW.  PA,USA
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Are there any parents on the listserv that homeschool their
Apert child ???
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I never noticed any bumps or lumps with EvaJessie's orbit surgery last year.
 She had a flap cut from her forehead to harvest bone to build the orbit
and advance it toward the front of her face.  I heard about these screws and
plates on the internet and pulled up a bunch of abstracts about them which I
then took to our surgeon and asked if he would please use these (if she was
an appropriate candidate for them).  He hadn't ever used them before, nor
had the hospital, but since I initiated the idea, our surgeon has made them
almost standard practice now.  Cool huh?
 

We used resorbable screws too, and after the surgery was over with, the reps
from Lorenz who were there came looking for me and they gave me a plate and
a couple of screws that were opened in OR and therefore no longer sterile,
so they said I could have them when I asked.  I'll post some photos of them
on EvaJessie's page shortly on the WideSmiles site.

Resa, thanks for the note about the newspaper article.  I'm going to check
that out.

Hope everyone is doing well.
 

Glad to hear Carmen Rae is home and doing well.
I have a few other notes to read.

Talk soon
Pat in Calgary
email to: bluenose@telusplanet.net
IM: onlypeach
It's never too late to have a happy childhood.  Tom Robbins (Still Life With
Woodpecker)
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Beth,

Thank you for the information.  I did not realize that the jaw is moved in the
mid-face advancement.  I had never investigated what went on with the mid-face
surgery because we were told that Andrew would probably not need one.  But now
that it is a possibility, I will be looking into it some more.  Thank you
again.

Lynn
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Hey Belinda,

I'm glad you've asked about tissue expanders. My son Jacob, 2 1/2 years
old, is on his third set. He has Apert Syndrome and was born with the tulip
hands (no digits free).

This procedure was done at Children's Memorial Hospital in Chicago,
Illinois by Dr. Bruce Bauer. The tissue expanders were placed under the
skin in the backs of the hands up toward the digits.

We chose this procedure to eliminate skin grafts and scarring. I believe
that there is alot less scarring in the groin area because they don't have
to have the extensive skin grafts from that region. They can have some.
Jacob had to have one graft for the last digit separation (pinkie fingers).
But, that scar is almost completely gone because they actually took a small
football-shaped section of all the layers of skin and then stitched the
area back together.

As far as the pain issue. My son has a high tolerance as does most of these
kids. But, you need to remember, weekly, if not more often, injections for
the tissue expanders. We have chosen to inject Jacob at home. I know Pat
takes EvaJessie to the doctor to have hers filled. Jacob is very tolerant
of the injections and, less than five minutes later, you'd never know you
did anything. I don't feel that they get in the way. He has never seemed to
mind them. He looks at them as they get bigger and wants to show everybody.
If you are interested in pictures, go to Jake's page on Teeter's Page. I've
included pictures of filled expanders to give everyone an idea of what to
expect.

If you want more information or the phone number to Jake's doctor for your
doctor, you can email me privately at:
jkb@elpaso.net

Hope the information helps!

Laurie Bailey
 

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> From: NephiRose@AOL.COM
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> Subject: tissue expansion
> Date: Monday, August 31, 1998 5:45 PM
>
> Hey guys,
>
> I've been hanging around.  I don't usually say anything until something
> pertinent hits me :)  I have a couple questions regarding tissue
expansion.  I
> want to make sure I got it right.  Sarah V. (Utah) had hand surgery last
month
> using skin graft.  During that time  I noticed some discussion regarding
> tissue expansion with EvaJessie and others.  EvaJessie was in her cheek
(?)
> and there was another one who had one and it was in the hand.  The hand
is the
> one I want to focus on....I need more details.  When I mentioned tissue
> expansion for the next surgery in the hands to Dr. Garramone, all I got
was a
> puzzled expression (yikes).  He wanted more information.
>
> 1)  Where was it done?  And by whom?
> 2)  Was in the hands of an apert child?
> 3)   Is a situation of tissue expasion vs. skin grafting? Or was it for
> another reason?
> 4.)  If it is as in question # 3, does tissue expansion necessarily have
less
> scarring?
> 5.)  In terms of pain, which would be greater?
>
> I think that is all the questions I have.  Any input would be great.  I
plan
> on giving the results of this to my doctor.  Sarah V.'s next surgery will
be
> six months from now to separate the ring and middle finger on both hands.
>
> Belinda Vicars
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Hello Ann,

Thank you very much for all the information you sent me.  I guess I said it
wrong.  Maybe it is an overbite.  His bottom jaw is out a little bit more than
his top.  But not by much, so I don't understand the problem.  It is not
something you notice.  But I think I will trust his ENT regarding the tonsils,
which is why we see that doctor.  We will find out in a couple of weeks if
Andrew's tubes have fallen out.

Thank you again and it is great to be back.

Lynn
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Glad to hear that Carmen Rae is home.  Now you can get things back to normal
and back on track.  Before you know it, she will be back to her old self
again.

Lynn
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Joanne sent this message to be passed on:
 

Hi.

I'm rather bummed.  The tests I had taken on Monday came back
inconclusive.  To quote the doctor, "I think I see a slight decrease in
size."  Two words in that sentence were unacceptable to me: think and
slight.  Next step is blood work in one week and another x-ray in three
weeks from now.  Thank God for insurance!  I was able to see the series
of x-rays, one from 97, one from two weeks ago and the one taken Monday.
The spot was not there last year. It looks like a jelly fish about the
size of a quarter, an inch in diameter.  I have finished the antibiotics
and will resume if the blood work indicates my antibodies have increased
since all of this started.  I hate this waiting! I was on the phone
constantly last night with friends and family wanting to know the
results.  That's why I didn't contact you sooner.  Please share this with
the list.  Thanks.

joanne
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Hello everyone!  Zoey's Mom, Christina here.  How do I go about getting the
complete list for the picture exchange?  I've got 50 names on my list and I
believe I heard that it was over 60 names by now.  I want to send the rest of
the listserv family pictures of Zoey.

Christina
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In a message dated 98-09-02 14:08:48 EDT, RusM@ioc.army.mil writes:

<< >
 > Dear Don and Cathy,
 >
 > Hope all is well with you and your family.  My purpose for my note is to
 > let
 > all know that our daughter,
 > Miss Adrienne, will be having, yet another, cranial surgery on 3 Sep.  It
 > is
 > scheduled for 9 hours and
 > we hope and pray the little tike can hang in that long.  Our thought have
 > been with everyone lately.  The busy summer hasn't permitted much extra
 > time.  Please pass this on as we can use all the prayers in the world for
 > Mr. Marsh, Dr. Kaufman, Dr. Soloman, the entire Team, and our Adrienne.
 >
 >                                                      Sincerely,
 >                                                      Mary and Allen Rus
 >           Mary & Allen J. Rus
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> Dear Don and Cathy,
>
> Hope all is well with you and your family.  My purpose for my note is to
> let
> all know that our daughter,
> Miss Adrienne, will be having, yet another, cranial surgery on 3 Sep.  It
> is
> scheduled for 9 hours and
> we hope and pray the little tike can hang in that long.  Our thought have
> been with everyone lately.  The busy summer hasn't permitted much extra
> time.  Please pass this on as we can use all the prayers in the world for
> Mr. Marsh, Dr. Kaufman, Dr. Soloman, the entire Team, and our Adrienne.
>
>                                                       Sincerely,
>                                                       Mary and Allen Rus
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>Date:    Wed, 2 Sep 1998 12:35:38 -0500
>From:    Tim and Carol <tcgraves@BELLSOUTH.NET>
>Subject: homeschooling

>Are there any parents on the listserv that homeschool their
>Apert child ???
 

Tim and Carol

We started homeschooling Krista (now starting 5th grade) two years ago.
It was a long decision in the making but, after several years
experience, the right one for her.   I'll try to outline the reasons and
results as briefly as possible.

1.  Academics.  Krista was average or slightly above in some areas
(reading, spelling, phonics, etc.) but well below average in others
(math, science).  The discussion of the past week regarding math fits
Krista to a tee.  After school we (usually Mary) would have to spend
literally hours going through the days work just to help her keep up.
Neither Krista nor us enjoyed this.   Each year her standardized test
scores (SAT or Iowa Basics) slipped a little lower.

This was in a private school, by the way.  We talked often with her
teachers and they said they were willing to help in any way.  However,
A) with a class of 20+ students they simply could not invest that much
personal attention in one child,  and  B) I don't think they understood
Krista's ways of thinking and specific needs as well as we did.  It took
us a loooonnnng time to understand her ways of thinking and doing things
(and we still don't have all the answers) and it is understandable that
a teacher would not be able to get it all figured out in the short time
they had her.

We also talked with people in the public schools, both in the preschool
years and during her school years.  They took one of two approaches
which totally frustrated us.  One approach (mostly by the preschool
therapists) was to just throw a label at her (ADD or several others)
even though her doctors, etc. said this was not an appropriate
diagnosis.  This was "comfortable" for them because they could give it a
name, but it did nothing to decide how to deal with it.  The other
approach (by the more professional evaluators) was to say (this is a
true story!), "I've never run across a case quite like this and,
frankly, I don't know what we'd do."  That didn't rank up there in the
"acceptable answers" category.  He wasn't saying Krista was odd.  Just
that he recognized she did have a different way of thinking through
things that he did not understand.

So in the end, we decided to try homeschooling.  We reevaluate it each
year, but so far we have seen no reason to stop.  We have seen very
definite improvements.  She gets much one-on-one attention.  We can
correct her and guide her thoughts right on the spot rather than later
in the day or the next day.  (In the discussion on math, somebody
mentioned that if there was a break of a few days, it seemed like all
the learning had been lost.  Now we can catch it long before those
breaks occur.)  And her standardized test scores have gone up every year
since we started!

2.  Socially.  One of the standard arguments against homeschooling is
the lack of socialization.  This couldn't be further from the truth.  We
still live in an environment  full of people.  That means we (and she)
interact daily with family, friends, neighbors, people at church, at the
YMCA, in stores and on the street,......   We can't escape the people
all around us, so there is no shortage of social interaction.   Some
respond positively to her and some negatively, just like anywhere else.

At school, Krista had a couple friends.  And there were a few who teased
her, as you would find anywhere.  And most tended to kind of ignore her.
Not necessarily on purpose or to be mean.  That's just the way it was.
Krista is more of a loner by nature anyway, so that was part of it.  And
with her arm and leg limitations, she couldn't keep up with the other
kids as they ran and played, so she just got left behind.  For those
reasons Krista experienced  a definite DROP in her social skills, not an
improvement, even though she was being "socialized."

Since we started homeschooling, this has reversed.  I think she is in an
environment where she knows she is totally accepted, rather than one
where that acceptance is always uncertain.  As a result, she is now more
confident in talking and playing with others.  She is still quiet and
somewhat of an introvert (I don't expect homeschool to make her an
extrovert - neither of her parents are).  But her level of confidence is
much higher.  These are not just our own observations.  Without any
prompting from us, friends have said they notice the same thing.

In addition, it gives us more opportunity to guide her developing social
skills in appropriate ways rather than being influenced so strongly by
the culture around her.  And lastly, both Krista and Mary (she does the
majority of the teaching) fell closer to each other than they did
before.  Krista prefers homeschool over regular school, and our two
other kids (one in first grade this year and the other still a
preschooler) have no desire to go to a school other than home.
 

Sorry this has gotten long.  I hope it answers some of your questions.
Please feel free to write again (over the listserver or privately, as
you prefer).  When we first decided to homeschool it was a big decision
and we were not positive it was the right one.  In retrospect, it has
definitely been the right choice.  It is not easy, and requires a large
commitment of time.  And of course it costs a little money (nowhere near
as much as a private school) while the public school uses your taxes
with little direct benefit to you.  But it has been providing Krista
with the education she needs.

Bob Horning
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Has anyone out there had repair of cohanal (?spelling) stenosis.  Jacob
seems to be very small on the left side and one doc feels he could go up
through the still open palate and scrap some bone away and open him up
some.  I remember a discussion awhile ago about stents but my husband and I
don't really want to mess with that issue.  Jacob is now scheduled to have
palate repair in Oct. but if we want to do this we will have to get it done
first. Any thoughts or comments would be appreciated.
Colleen and gang
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FYI--words of wisdom from an unknown source
___________________
 

I've learned - that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be
someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I've learned - that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care
back.

I've learned - that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to
destroy it.

I've learned - that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in
your life that counts.

I've learned - that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes.
After  that, you'd better know something.

I've learned - that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can
do.

I've learned - that you can do something in an instant that will give you
heartache for life.

I've learned - that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want
to be.

I've learned - that you should always leave loved ones with loving words.
It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned - that you can keep going long after you think you can't.

I've learned - that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we
feel.

I've learned - that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I've learned - that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at
first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its
place.

I've learned - that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when
it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I've learned - that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I've learned - that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and
have the best time.

I've learned - that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're
down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I've learned - that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry,
but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned - that true friendship continues to grow, even over the
longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I've learned - that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want
them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I've learned - that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences
you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many
birthdays you've celebrated.

I've learned - that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely
or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would
be if they believed it.

I've learned - that your family won't always be there for you. It may seem
funny, but people you aren't related to can take care of you and love you
and teach you to trust people again.  Families aren't biological.

I've learned - that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt
you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I've learned - that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned - that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world
doesn't stop for your grief.

I've learned - that our background and circumstances may have influenced
who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learned - that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they
don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean
they do.

I've learned - that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It
could change your life forever.

I've learned - that two people can look at the exact same thing and see
something totally different.

I've learned - that no matter how you try to protect your children, they
will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.

I've learned - that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people
who don't even know you.

I've learned - that even when you think you have no more to give, when a
friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I've learned - that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human
being.

I've learned - that the people you care most about in life are taken from
you too soon.

I've learned - that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between
being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you
believe.

Source unknown.
 

Dori A. Jefferson
djeff@midwest.net
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Colleen,
Evan had choanal stenosis. I is a narrowing of the nasal airway as opposed to
closure (choanal atresia) Because his was so severe, he was trached at 4 weeks
when he got his first upper respiratory infection. Last december when the team
at Stanford was performing his cleft palate repair, they also decided to open
up the stenotic nasal airways ans place stents (small rubber tubes) in. The
cleft palate affords easier access to the area of bony narrowing of the
airway. The stent(s) stays in several weeks so the scarring can take place
around it and keep the hole open. They didn't require too much care- just were
occasionally bothersome and exacerbated his "stupid baby trick" of eating or
drinking something and having it come out his nose (Chocolate pudding won the
grossout award). I'm sure there would have been more stent care required had
he needed that airway space to breathe but with the trach that was
unnecessary. He does much better now and it has helped his speech efforts
immensely as well as his tolerance for the Passy Muir speaking valve. I can't
remember how old your son is but one thing we didin preparation for the cleft
palate repair was to get his from a bottle to a sippy cup as strong sucking is
contraindicated after this surgery.

This was, by far, the easiest of all the surgeries we've dealt with. partly
due to a change of venue, but it was a cakewalk compared to the cranio or hand
surgeries!! Hope the same is true for y'all.

Marianne
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Hi Colleen,

My daugher also has choanal stenosis.  Her left side also is almost
completely blocked.  SHe has been a borderline for trach for a long time.
She looks just fine - healthy little poop, but her breathing has been
tough.  WE hae done everything to avoid a trach because she is thriving so
well during the days.  She just had her tonsils and adenoids out which has
helped immensly.  Before that she has always had a tough time breathing at
night.  She has gone through 2 sets of stents with brief success
afterwards.  If your Dr can scrape the bone, and put stents in, in my
opinion, it cant hurt anything and might definately help with the bone
formation and breathing.  I asked our ENT if he could do this on Brenna,
but she did not have a cleft so he did not have access to work on those
bones.  If it sounds like it would improve the airway, I think it would be
beneficial to try.

p.s. Stents were kinda hard for us to deal with the second time but, they
did help.

Good luck, Robyn J.

At 01:19 PM 9/3/98 -0400, you wrote:
>Has anyone out there had repair of cohanal (?spelling) stenosis.  Jacob
>seems to be very small on the left side and one doc feels he could go up
>through the still open palate and scrap some bone away and open him up
>some.  I remember a discussion awhile ago about stents but my husband and I
>don't really want to mess with that issue.  Jacob is now scheduled to have
>palate repair in Oct. but if we want to do this we will have to get it done
>first. Any thoughts or comments would be appreciated.
>Colleen and gang
>
>
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I know very much about resorbing plates and screws.  If you would like more
information try www.lorenzsurgical.com - look for lactosorb.
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I'm glad that you had information on Lactosorb.  If you would like more info
on them please let me know.  They certainly help.
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Just checking to see if my mail is working or if no one has been talking.

Also for those of you who has not received Nick's picture, please let me
know so that I can get them out. I know that there is a few that has not
got one. You can do this privately if you want.

I have also got the blues today. Must be my day in the barrel. My husband
had to go back to India yesterday after being home for three weeks. So now
I am back to being the married widow. He won't be back home now until right
before Christmas. Needless to say, Nick and I can get pretty lonely
sometimes. and speaking of lonely.
My neighbors are going to be moving to the Dallas- Fort Worth area in three
to four weeks and it is really going to be tough on Nick. My neighbors son
which is Nick's best friend are going to be gone forever now. Gary , the
little boy has never "seen" Nick's birth defects. These two boys are
together constantly and I just don't know how I am going to handle Nick.
There is just not anyone else here in the neighborhood for Nick to play
with. There has been four houses including my moving neighbors that has
sold in the last few months and not one kid Nick's age.

Hopefully tomorrow will be a better day. Thanks for letting me unload.

Judy
jamerman@uti.com
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Ann,

I know I'm a little behind in responding, but have not been able to get to the
computer for any length of time.  I'm hoping to catch up today.  My non-Apert
child is 9 yrs. old and in 3rd grade (we did pre-K).  She too has difficulty
with her math concepts.  She usually keeps her grades in the 90's but still
misses very simple problems.  She still tries to use her fingers and can't
seem to memorize the answers.  We do flash cards and written exercises but I
can see where we are going to start having bigger problems with the
multiplication and division if we don't get a handle on this now.  I had
forgotten about the multiplication table you sent.  I used the same when I was
learning math and found it very helpful.  I am going to download it and see if
that helps.  I'm not sure if we have a real learning deficit or if it is just
lack of attention.  I am going to pay a lot closer attention to the things
that have been discussed and see if they apply to our situation.  Hope all is
well at your house.

Brenda
Houston
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Janine-

This is very interesting.  I don't know that anyone has ever looked that
closely at Jonathan's spine.  He has had several MRIs but they were all of the
cranium as far as I know.  My mother (65) is going through a very tough time
with her vertebrae.  She has some fused areas and the of the majority of the
vertabrae are degenerated and have arthritis completely around the spine.  She
has been to 4 neurosurgeons and they said they could do surgery and that it
would be a tough road to recovery with no guarantees on if the surgery would
be successful.  She is opting not to have the surgery but lives in constant
pain.  I want her to move from Md. here with us but she doesn't want to be a
burden and doesn't think she could be much help to me with Jonathan because
she can't even lift him.  I wish I could help her.  I got off track here--I am
definately going to mention this at Jonathan's next ortho appt.  We haven't
been there since he was 1 since we have had so many surgeries to deal with.
He walks just fine and doesn't seem to have a problem with his shoulders at
this point but it is definately time to get a check up.  Let me know what else
you find and thanks for the info.

Brenda
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We have received 33 photos to date and I have only 52 on my mailing list.
Does anyone have an updated list for the photo exchange?  I've made additional
copies to send to anyone I may have missed.  Just let me know.

Thanks.

Brenda
Houston
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So glad to hear that Carmen Rae is home and doing better.  That was some virus
she had.  Hope things at your house are getting back to normal and your family
is catching up on rest.

Best wishes,

The Sieberts
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Mary & Allen-

Sorry I am late in sending my best wishes to Adrienne on her surgery on 9/3.
We just went through an 8 hr. cranial vault last March and I remember all too
well how rough the wait was.  We hope and pray that everything went well and
the surgery was a success.  Please let us know when you get a chance.

Best regards,

The Sieberts
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Hi Brenda

>I'm not sure if we have a real learning deficit or if it is just
>lack of attention.

This is the difficulty isn't it!  And the thing is, if we just put it down as a temporary issue and assume the child will catch up again later, and then find they haven't caught up, there is then a huuuge gap that needs to be filled, with all the accompanying feelings of inadequacy that may present for the child.

And I don't know about your family, but what with swimming, Brownies, family and friends, I already have trouble making sure the homework gets done without having to enrol her in special classes to make sure she catches up with the gaps that have developed because we didn't get onto things quickly enough!

It's a tough balancing act that we can really stuff up if we play it the wrong way.

We're all fit and well here and enjoying the longer days as we begin to head towards summer.

Ann
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Sorry that I have not written sooner to let everyone know how Billy  is doing.
I talked to Collen Jones last weekend and she reminded me that I have not
written to  say how he is doing and she was concerned.

Anyway he is doing much better than last time I wrote but is still not
himself yet.  He has a virus which has knocked him for a loop. The doctor
who is covering for our doctor is not sure what it is but he is  doing a
great job. He had a low grade fever and a terrible rash which covers his
neck and chest and had alot of trouble breathing. As of today he is not
running any fever and is much better with his breathing. The rash is going
away slowly and he is eating very well again. The last two weeks have been
awful but each day things get better. He will have a sleep study done in a
few weeks when he is over this mess. I have not read all of the emails from
a awhile ago so I'm not up on everything happening but, I hope everyone is
doing well.

I want to say that I received Brookes picture and was very happy to see this
little sweetheart.

On Monday one of my daughters put her hands threw our storm door while
having a heated argument with her sister and made a real mess out of her
right arm. We were at the hospital 5 hours getting exrays to be sure there
was no glass in any of the cuts and a bunches of stitches. I stick by my
statement that I have made since our girls started to get older and that is
"Girls are worst than boys any day". I am only grateful that she is ok. God
was surley watching over her that day.

Anyway school is back and the days are pretty so busy  but I hope to read
all of the mail this week.
 

I do have one concern with Billy and that is he has been bumping his head an
awful lot since he is waiking around the funiture. Not on purpose but he
seems to always hit his head first before the rest of his body and sometimes
he hits it really hard. I know his head is bigger and heavier but I am
concerned. Has anyone else had this problem? And how will he ever walk
without falling and hitting his head? His next cranial appt. is not until
the end of Sept.

Karen(PA)
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Karen wrote:

> I do have one concern with Billy and that is he has been bumping his head
an
> awful lot since he is waiking around the funiture. Not on purpose but he
> seems to always hit his head first before the rest of his body and
sometimes
> he hits it really hard. I know his head is bigger and heavier but I am
> concerned. Has anyone else had this problem? And how will he ever walk
> without falling and hitting his head? His next cranial appt. is not until
> the end of Sept.
>
> Karen(PA)
 

Jacob also would fall and hit his head first on things (still does & he's 2
1/2). My husband and I have decided it is because with Jacob's hands being
the tulip kind when he was born, he didn't use them to help stabilize
himself because he had problems with ingrown nails and they hurt alot.
Therefore, it is not a reflex for him to catch himself with his hands. He's
getting alot better at it but, I think it will take time.

If you are concerned about him hurting himself, call your doctor. It never
hurts to ask. We did and were told, and I quote, "short of dropping him off
a building, he's put together very solidly." We were very relieved because
at that time, he was just starting to walk and having lots of accidents.

Hope it helps!

Laurie Bailey
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Since Jordan has been walking he is ALWAYS bumping his head......I think its
just the whole balancing act...he, of course, dose it more when hes tired...he
just falls over and lays there on the floor for a bit of a break. Corners are
a nightmare, but we have covered them the best we can. I think this is just a
normal thing...and nothing we can really do about it...our neurosurgeon told
us it was no big deal..all kids fall when learning to move about (like tipping
over when learning to sit up) and since the remaining soft spot is on top of
his head...not on the forehead or side of his head he should be fine b/c hes
not doing bomber dives (YET!!!!!!) glorified headstands.....

But its nerve wracking to say the least...his first true goose egg sent me in
a frenzy to the neurosurgeon......all he could do is laugh and say that he was
a typical little boy and there would be many more where this came from. He
obviously has his dads energy and gusto w/ his moms sense of
coordination...SCAREY!!!!

Jenn(Tampa/St. Pete)
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Not long after Mitchell's cranial surgery, he tripped and hit his head on a
door facing.  The resulting bump was larger than a silver dollar or poker chip
and was very squishy.  Our pediatrician saw it at a previously scheduled
appointment and was quite concerned, but when we called Dr. Marsh's office,
they said it was quite normal.  It lasted about two weeks.  We noticed one day
that it was finally getting smaller, and the next day it was gone.  Poof!

Mitchell has been having loose bowel movements ever since his cranial surgery
in May.  At first, we thought it might have something to do with the
antibiotics or the healing process, but now we're starting to get concerned.
Does anyone have any experience with this?

Glad to hear that Billy is doing better.  Hope he continues to improve.

Resa
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> Mitchell has been having loose bowel movements ever since his cranial surgery in
> May.  At first, we thought it might have something to do with the antibiotics or
> the healing process, but now we're starting to get concerned. Does anyone have
> any experience with this?

   Could it be coincidental?  Has he been drinking lots of juice
since the weather has been hotter?  I really have to watch my 3 year
old's consumption of juice.  I have to dilute it and even then he can
get really loose stools if he drinks too much.

Judy
Judy Gibson

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Hi all,

Amy fell alot more than her brother did when she was younger.  I noticed
a difference after she had tubes in her ears.  Her balance improved
immensely but she still tends to sport more bruises than I recall him
having!  She also never used to catch herself with her hands and if
it wasn't her head receiving another bump it was her mouth getting hit.

Amy's bowel movements were always affected after surgery.  Very loose and
numerous - up to five a day.  Normal for her until about 5 years old was
about three BM's a day.  Her pediatrician thought it may be related to her
being a mouth breather.  He thought it dried her out and therefore she
drank more fluids than the average child.  He said it would improve with
age as a preschoolers digestion system works quicker than an older child
thus not as much time to absorb the water when her food was digesting.
As you get older it the food you are digesting remains in your intestinal
track longer, more time for the fluid to be absorbed and bowel movements
become firmer.  He said we could cut back on her fluid intake but I
figured if she was thirsty she should be able to drink.  The area that it
affected was her toilet training took longer.

I was very emotional on Friday as it was Amy's first day of grade one.  I
guess it was a real milestone.  Up to now she has been in early
intervention programs and to see her in a 'regular' grade one class
(if you can call a multiage classroom with 60 grade 1,2 and 3's in it
regular) was a dream come true.  I was higher than a kite all day and
very proud of her accomplishment.  She was very excited too!

Pat can you e mail me the author of A Child in Pain.  I had to delete then
reinstall my internet program so lost all my files....

Leanne
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Hi everybody,

I don't know  anything about tissue expansion except that Dr. Genecov said he
looked in to it and that it had not been proven  very sucessful in Apert kids,
especially since they have a lot of skin on other places of their body to take
skin grafts from.  Tyler had his skin grafts done Aug. 20th  and there doing
good but his hand splint are rubbing blisters on his new fingers. Anyone else
had this problem?  The question on growing the skin cells, Genecov told me
that that was mostly for burn victim because they don't have much skin and it
hard to have any skin to graft.  I would like to learn more about this to so I
can have a list of question when Tyler goes back for his 2 week appt.

I'm curious too!
Stacey Jobe
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Yes I think girl's are harder than boys any day.  I thank the Lord every day
that he gave me a little boy. At least I know what to do with him!  Tyler's
had a few bump's on his head. He even fell off the bed with his arm cast on.
But my Doc. told me the best way the tell if somethings wrong is how the child
act's after the bump or fall.  Tyler cryed after he fell off the bed, but it
was a scared cry, and in 5 min. he was in his walker running through the
house.   Hope this helps!

The Jobe's
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THE APERT LISTSERV,

This message is to inform you that THE JOBE'S has created a
Virtual Flower Bouquet(tm) for you at the Virtual Florist(sm) web site.

Your Virtual Flower Bouquet can be viewed anytime during the next
two weeks by connecting your World Wide Web browser to the following
URL:

    http://www.virtualflorist.com/pickup?GDU8819

If you have difficulty getting to this URL, or do not have access
to a web browser, then send an e-mail to 'help@virtualflorist.com'
and our mail system will send an automated reply with a more detailed
set of instructions.
 

Enjoy your flowers!

    The Virtual Florist

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Hi Resa

>Mitchell has been having loose bowel movements ever since his cranial surgery
>in May.  At first, we thought it might have something to do with the
>antibiotics or the healing process, but now we're starting to get concerned.
>Does anyone have any experience with this?

Amy had this after one of her surgeries and it was identified as an infecting organism (rotovirus from memory) that she had picked up in hospital.  The staff automatically denied any possibility that she could have caught it in hospital, but as she hadn't been anywhere else its origins were obvious.  It eventually worked its way through but was not nice to deal with, particularly on top of everything else.

May to September is a heck of a long time though.  Have they cultured anything?
 

Ann
NZ