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>My daughter, Rachel, has a wonderful pediatric dentist that asks (but doesn't
>insist) that parents wait in the waiting room.  From my experience, Rachel
>(age 5 tomorrow) has done much better without me in the room with her.   When
>I have been with her (only at the dentist) she cries and refuses to
>cooperate.

Gail, from my experience with Amy (8+1/2) I think what happens is, if you are there they don't have to be brave because you will look after them.  Once they get a little older, they have more life experience and if you aren't there they just have to go with the flow.  However, in those early years I think it is important that they have their Mum or Dad with them.

And thanks to everyone for the observations about holding or holding-down the children.  I think in the early days I was so stunned by it all I just did as I was told - but further down the track I intend standing up for my right to be her mother, not her nurse.

Cheers
Ann
NZ
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>Nick will be in the public school homebound program at his doctors request until the device is removed.

Our Amy has decided not going to school sounds pretty exciting, and that aspect of it seems to have over-ridden her anxieties (for the moment anyway!).  We don't have the external device in NZ at the moment but it certainly sounds the preferred system for me.  Amy doesn't want to wear a "halo" so maybe a "crown" would be better accepted if we do have a choice when the time comes!

Will be interested to hear how you manage to keep each other occupied, happy and sane during this time!  And to know what Nick can/will eat.

Ann
NZ
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Hi Gail, I just wanted to say keep up the good work. You must be doing
something right,she's making you proud and thats alright. And a BIG 5th
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO RACHEL!!! Hope you all have a great day!! Take Care. Have
a fun DAY! Max
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April,
We were told also that they can't completely tell how farsighted Samantha is
until she can speak.  But he said that he knows she is because when she
tracks she has to move her whole head.  We never noticed this.  Most kids and
adults track just by moving their eyeball.  He kept putting lenses over her
eyes until she stopped moving her head and just tracked with her eyeballs.
Once we find glasses that fit her correctly then he'll be able to do more
tests.     We are also speaking to him about contacts.  Samantha's theapist
told us that a lot of her kids with cornea problems where contacts.   That it
is pretty common with babies now.  But we have to discuss further.   Hope
this helps a little bit.

Can't wait to get Saige's pictures.

Love, Lisa Guyette (mother of Samantha 81/2 months)
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Just wanted to thank everyone for keeping Carmen Rae in their prayers.  She
did great during surgery and now has pointers!  She should be coming home
later today.  Talk to ya later.

Robin

P.S.  TO LIZ!!!  Sorry I didn't let you know about Carmen's surgery sooner.
 My brain gets a LITTLE scattered the days leading up to surgery.  Talk to
ya soon, and thanks for calling the hospital to check on her.
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I am so glad she pulled through the sugery so well, now has fingers to point
with! May she have a speedy recovery and may the next sugery be as successful
as this one was. I understand Asher is having sugery too my prayers and
thoughts will be with Asher's family as well as Asher. Robin I will call you
soon so that we can make plans to get together again soon!
Liz Saylan
P.S. I hope everyone else is doing great! I hope Teeter and Nick get well
soon!
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Hello everyone,

This is Deb Picht (Mother of Lisa now 10).  I have a question for anyone =
to reply back on.  I think the older ones will be the ones to best =
answer this question.

Lisa has a planters wart on the bottom of her foot.  We are having it =
taken care of on Tuesday.   They will burn it off.=20

My question is:  Has anyone had problems with this?  Her toes are still =
fused and we do not plan on separating them.
She has never complained about it and I only noticed it last night.  It =
is big.  At first I thought it was a callus.

She puts her own shoes and socks on and she has been taking showers =
instead of baths so I do not see the bottom of her feet.   I happened to =
turn her foot a little bit to clip the toe nails.  That is how I found =
it.  I feel so bad that I did not notice it sooner.  But she never =
complains about anything.  I think that is a trait of Aperts.  She =
really is not walking any different either. =20

I will wait for any feedback I can get. =20

Thank you
Deb Picht
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<DIV><FONT color=3D#000000 size=3D2>This is Deb Picht (Mother of Lisa =
now 10).&nbsp;=20
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ones will=20
be the ones to best answer this question.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT color=3D#000000 size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
<DIV><FONT color=3D#000000 size=3D2>Lisa has a planters wart on the =
bottom of her=20
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will=20
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<DIV><FONT color=3D#000000 size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
<DIV><FONT color=3D#000000 size=3D2>My question is:&nbsp; Has anyone had =
problems=20
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separating=20
them.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT color=3D#000000 size=3D2>She has never complained about it =
and I only=20
noticed it last night.&nbsp; It is big.&nbsp; At first I thought it was =
a=20
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<DIV><FONT color=3D#000000 size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
<DIV><FONT color=3D#000000 size=3D2>She puts her own shoes and socks on =
and she has=20
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notice=20
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that is a=20
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either.&nbsp;=20
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<DIV><FONT color=3D#000000 size=3D2>I will wait for any feedback I can =
get.&nbsp;=20
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<DIV><FONT color=3D#000000 size=3D2>Thank you</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT color=3D#000000 size=3D2>Deb Picht</FONT></DIV>
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My doctors appointment last week turned out as I predicted.  The
ibuprofen did not do as well as we had hoped.  We discussed some options,
including cortisone, which we eliminated because of the many negative
side effects.  She sent me to a physiologist, a doctor specializing in
physical therapy.  I saw him yesterday and went through a head to toe
examination.  He seemed to know some things about Apert's and the limited
range of motion in the joints that I have.  He feels the pain and popping
I am experiencing in my joints is due to wear and tear.  Gee, I'm only
34!!!!  But as my family doc said, I put more use into some joints to
compensate for other ones I'm not using as well.  I am going to have
Physical Therapy, in fact, I will be a patient of the folks I'm working
with.  There's nothing like choosing your favorite PT from previous
experience!  This should be interesting.  Right when I am heading off to
college to study rehabilitation too!  I'll have some personal experience
and hands on work to fall back on.

The drugs I am taking for my depression combined with the counseling
seems to be doing it's thing.  I am no longer in bed until I felt like
getting up, or mother nature called, which ever came first.  There is a
light at the end of the tunnel, but it's a warning light to caution me
from going to fast and rushing my recovery.  I am quite aware of some
problems I need to resolve once and for all.  Some have plagued me since
early childhood.  In time all things will be okay.

Oh, the car saga is over, finally.  It ended with me in my mom's borrowed
car while mine was being repaired, for the umpteenth time, sitting at a
stop light and her car dying on me.  Her alternator quit.  between the
two cars, we sunk $1,000 in one week into repairs!!!  I have heard $1,000
is a nice down payment for a NEW car!!!

Other than the unbearable heat, all else is fine.  Hope it's true for
you!
Joanne
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Richard Tait wrote:
>
> Sorry that I don't write much, but I have a question for everyone.  I hope
> that you can all help me with this.
>
> Have any of you heard or had experience with Apert syndrome children having
> ADHD (Attention Deficit with Hyperactivity Disorder).
>
> I think that we may have it, and we want to do some researching before we
> are into the school system.
>
> Thanks in advance,
> Rene and family
I am aware of one aperts child in our city who has ADHD>  I have rarely
heard of an apert's child having this disorder however..?
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I have a favor to ask... My doctor is interested in reading more about
the Red procedure.  Information about the details were sent out not to
long ago.  Could someone please send them again?  Thanks! Joanne
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Kia ora Deb!

I am so pleased to read your request, I thought I was the only one who hadn't picked this up as early as I thought I should!!

I noticed Amy had lumps on her feet and the skin was an unpleasant red lumpy/blistery texture, and, like everything else happening to her at the time, put it down to her syndrome.  But oh no, it was plain old verrucas and tinea (how embarrassing!).  Creams and tinctures cleared it all up, no surgery/burning needed.  Now we routinely use foot powders in her socks and as soon as I see the reddish colour and/or blistering appear on goes the antifungal cream (with lowdose steroid if blistered) and it clears up very quickly.   No sign of any more verruca.

All the best for the footcare.

Ann
NZ
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>> Have any of you heard or had experience with Apert syndrome children having
>> ADHD (Attention Deficit with Hyperactivity Disorder).

This rings a bell with me and I certainly have the gut feeling that this is not unusual, having read something about this "somewhere" - but I just cannot trace WHERE!

In the meantime until I can track this down - the UK CFSG could be of some help and you could check with Steve Moody (are you there Steve?), because back in their Spring 1998 newsletter they had an article on learning difficulties, and their Spring 1999 newsletter contains information on possible links between "some craniofacial conditions and certain patterns of behaviour which vary from the 'norm'." - in this particular instance they are specifically looking at Autism, but someone from that part of the world may have information on ADHD if they have been considering these issues.

Some of you may remember we had conversations about the "jiggling" phenomenon with some of our children - does that ring any bells?

Also back in 1997 there was discussion on the Listserver, some of which I still have on file if you want me to email it to you.

We have an ADHD organisation here in NZ that provides support and information to parents, so I am sure you will have something similar over your side of the world.

All the best
Ann
NZ
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Hello again,

I don't remember who sent the message regarding ADHD.  We thought Lisa =
had ADD.  She did not have the hyperactiviy portion of it so they did =
not consider her to have ADHD.

She has a very hard time staying focused in school so we put her through =
a 3 week blind study on Ridalin.
One week was a high dose, another week it was a low dose and other week =
is was no dose.  We did not know what she was taking. (Like I said it =
was a blind study)  We examined her and the school also examined her and =
we did not see any difference after the 3 week period. =20

It was concluded that Lisa was not focusing the way she should because =
she is also missing the corpus collosum.  (A part of her brain)  Our =
local pediatrician told us that putting her on ridalin would not solve =
the focusing problem.  This would maybe do her more harm than good =
because Lisa has always been real happy and being on Ridalin could =
change that.   Lisa just needs to be reminded more than other children =
to concentrate on what she is doing.  But too she is mildly retarded =
which is another strike against her.

This is my 2 cents on ADHD.

Deb Picht
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hyperactiviy=20
portion of it so they did not consider her to have ADHD.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT color=3D#000000 size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
<DIV><FONT size=3D2>She has a very hard time staying focused in school =
so we put=20
her through a 3 week blind study on Ridalin.</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT size=3D2></FONT><FONT color=3D#000000 size=3D2>One week was a =
high dose,=20
another week it was a low dose and other week is was no dose.&nbsp; We =
did not=20
know what she was taking. (Like I said it was a blind study)&nbsp; We =
examined=20
her and the school also examined her and we did not see any difference =
after the=20
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<DIV><FONT size=3D2>It was concluded that Lisa was not focusing the way =
she should=20
because she is also missing the corpus collosum.&nbsp; (A part of her=20
brain)&nbsp; Our local pediatrician told us that putting her on ridalin =
would=20
not solve the focusing problem.&nbsp; This would maybe do her more harm =
than=20
good because Lisa has always been real happy and being on Ridalin could =
change=20
that.&nbsp;&nbsp; Lisa just needs to be reminded more than other =
children to=20
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which is=20
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<DIV><FONT size=3D2>This is my 2 cents on ADHD.</FONT></DIV>
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Thanks for all the birthday wishes to Rachel!!  She's starting to really
"grow up" now!

Take care.  Gail
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As it approaches Jordan's second birthday, I am also reminded of all the
doubts about how he would "function" from both a physical standpoint (I never
thought he'd get on his belly, yet he walked at 1 and now sleeps, plays, and
bathes on his tummy these days!!!) and a mental one. Nothing pleases me more
than picking him up form his
 pre-pre school in the evening and having all the teachers say he is doing
just what all the others are doing. Although his speech therapist still tries
to get me to put him in early intervention, like he was in Florida, being in
a regular classroom setting has done nothing but shown him all the things he
can do and succeed at if he just tries. Both the positive tasks and words and
the not so positive ones!!!!

For all those parents who, like me, are forced to watch Blues Clues day in
and day out, perhaps the best lesson learned from Blue and her friends is the
most repetitive one of, "You can do anything you want to do."

Happy birthday to all those coming and just recently passed and best of luck
for upcoming surgeries and those recouping.

Jenn (Columbus, Ohio)
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We need to keep in mind here the difference between ADD, ADHD and just plain difficulty in concentrating/focussing on a task (also, is 3 weeks long enough for Ritilan?) and the readiness or otherwise of "professionals" to label children.

Amy has difficulty staying focussed and we have worked out a few motivational strategies to try and improve this.  With all the classroom activity she cannot hold on to more than two instructions at any one time.

There is also a query on the integrity of Amy's corpus callosum.  We don't know what the difference is as the scan was not clear, and we can't do anything about it anyway, so just try to develop strategies to help her.

Ann
NZ
>She has a very hard time staying focused in school so we put her through a 3 week blind study on Ridalin.
>It was concluded that Lisa was not focusing the way she should because she is also missing the corpus collosum.
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Subject:      Re: development
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Jenn,
Congratulations on Jordan's continued progress.  We too had so many doubts
about Mitchell, but he's now doing just fine.  I share in your joy.

The lady who cuts our children's hair has became a friend and prayer partner
a long time ago.  She has a child with epilepsy, so she knows what it's like
to have a child with special medical needs.  Her step-daughter just gave
birth to a child with Down's Syndrome.  She has a very postive attitude about
it and I really am feeling a shift in our culture toward real acceptance of
people with special needs.  Although it will be hard for her to part with
that dream of the perfect child, this is not nearly the tragic situation that
it once was.  Isn't that wonderful?

Thanks for listening,
Resa